What Qualities Do You Value Most in Your Friends?

Hi All,

Where are you reading from?

Just for grins I checked the stats on the website and was curious as to who was reading the blog and where they were from.

Click on the image and check it out!

We are so humbled and grateful by you checking out our little corner of the universe and hope that you’ll return to this corner of the galaxy from time to time. Thank you!

Let me say thanks again!

Thanks so much for your prayers and thoughts after my dad’s passing. The trip to Puerto Rico went well and I was able to scatter his ashes into the beautiful waters of the island where I will take my family to and share memories. As my dad would say, now onto brighter days.

This Week in the L-Verse

Stacey Aragon is busy at work putting together plans for more contests, giveaways and everything else that the harbinger of promotions can come up with. She’s doing an amazing job and best of all, she’s having fun doing it. That’s one thing that I absolutely have to have in working relationships are folks you can have fun with and love what they’re doing. It’s simply a must.

We are planning to attend GMX (Geek Media Expo) in Nashville this fall so if you have any ideas you’d like to pass along to her please feel free to send them to Stacey[at]Leonardoverse.com. Nothing is too silly.

PoochieMars has done an amazing job with the cover art for Jupiter Chronicles. which you can pre-order here.

Also don’t forget that Family Focus Blog is running a Jupiter Chronicles giveaway where you can get your free autographed copy of The Secret of the Great Red Spot. Find out how here.

What Qualities Do You Value Most in Your Friends?

I have to admit I got the idea for this post from one of those “idea generator” type sites like “Plinky” that found its way into my in-box but I couldn’t resist this one because relationships are so important to me. After reading the topic I thought, “why not?”

We all have quirks but at the same time we have to be realistic and agree that there are some personality types that we mesh with better than others. We all have pet peeves that get under our skin and although I’m all for love trumping all of them it’s still a growth experience that we should learn to recognize and hopefully embrace.

So what do I value most?

Friends who don’t take themselves so seriously.

I’m all for being proud of your accomplishments, working hard and who you are as a person but when the ego thing starts to rear its ugly head I back off and run for the hills. There are more important things in life than the need to establish any kind of intellectual superiority or ownership in any given area. Most of the stuff we have or do is temporary, anyway. Only relationships are forever.

Unfortunately, I can spot the type from a mile away and tend to steer clear for fear of whiffing the air of arrogance and fainting from the stench. I was very fortunate to find some good cohorts in crime to work on Jupiter Chronicles with me who aren’t afraid to have a good belly laugh.

Open mind

This is a big one for me and for some reason I seem to be encountering folks with closed minds more and more lately. One of the teachings of martial arts and particularly our school says “nothing remains the same…..may we grow”. I wouldn’t want to live in a box that forces everyone around me to conform to my way of thinking. I find stagnation to be a source of depression for me so I try my best to keep  myself learning something new every day. Yes, I have beliefs and convictions that I adhere to but no one human knows everything there is to know about everything. We simply never stop growing and we should never stop learning. You don’t have to be a painter, a musician, or a writer to be a creative thinker.

Don’t mock things that you don’t understand.

Mutual Respect

I hate condescension. I mean ugly cut-throat sarcasm that is meant to elevate one person over another. Hmm, is there an ongoing theme here? Separately, time management is a big deal for me. I’ve got one old friend who says that when he’s going to be there at 5:30 he means 5:30. That means a lot to me. It means that you respect another person’s time. You follow through with what you’ve said unless something has gone drastically wrong.

Trust 

I want to know that when I screw up (and I will) that my friends will always be my friends. This isn’t a selfish, “you better be there for me” kind of rant. It’s more of a trust of intent. There can be no honesty if there’s no foundation of trust and by that I mean, no judgment. You can tell me anything you want to but I have to know that you care first. If I’m not sure that you do or the words are motivated by the need to say something that doesn’t matter in the large scheme of things, or even if the message is delivered without constructive intent then save it. What’s important is that we know that the friendship doesn’t have to be over because someone made a mistake. I’ve made some but guess what….so have you. You will again.

And the most important one….

Laughter

‘Nuff said.

The best way to ask for these things in a friendship is to be those things. Do I screw up in the areas I’ve listed above. Yup.

After all, I’m only human.

Leonardo Ramirez is an author of Science Fiction and Fantasy. Please visit http://leonardoverse.com and sign up for the blog.

Click here to place your pre-order for Jupiter Chronicles!

Puerto Rico – An Island of Enchantment, Good Food and Great People!

This week I will travel to Puerto Rico to honor my father’s last request.  It will be a simple ceremony. I will simply scatter his ashes into the Atlantic Ocean at the most northern point of the island and say my last goodbye.

Because I’ll be travelling there I thought I’d share a simple glimpse into the island itself and if you ever have the opportunity to visit I would highly recommend it.

Folks always ask me where I’m from. Not saying for sure why I get asked that or what leads them to believe that I’m not from the states since the U.S. is a melting pot and should be perceived as such.

People are naturally curious which there is nothing wrong with. It’s nothing to get offended about.

My parents are Puerto Rican which gives me a Puerto Rican heritage and it’s one that I’m also very proud of. In the end, we’re all Americans. But we also have a history.

I always get questions like:

“Do you need a passport to get there?”

“Does anybody there speak English?”

“What’s their currency?”

Oh and my personal non-favorite: “So, you like tacos?”

I try to bite my lip at that last one. Doesn’t always work. In light of questions like these I thought I’d try to clear up some misconceptions about the island.

Puerto Rico is small in size but grand are the people. At 100 miles long and 35 miles wide you can drive the entire island in a few hours.  You can stand on the beach and stare at the crystalline waters of the Atlantic and turn around to face the El Yunque National Rain Forest. At night you can hear the call of an indigenous frog known as El Coqui which can only live on this island.  So beautiful is the call that in the 80′s a barge left the island in route to Miami to export the frog and bring its music to the states. They all died on arrival.

El Yunque National Rain Forest is the only tropical forest in the United States National Forest System and has a land mass of 28k acres. It’s highest peak (El Toro) is 3,494 feet high. Twenty-three of the 200 species found there cannot be found on any other place on the planet. It rains year-round and has been measured at 240 inches per year.

Puerto Rico was discovered by Columbus and is a commonwealth. The official name of the island is “The free and associated state of Puerto Rico”. It is U.S. property and all Puerto Ricans are U.S. citizens under the Treaty of Paris in 1898 which ended the Spanish-American war. While the 3.8 million people that live there do serve in our military, pay taxes (to the state) and Social Security (to the U.S.) and operate under the same constitution that we do, they cannot vote for President. They are represented in Congress though. You don’t need a passport to get there and they use U.S. currency.

Their main exports are medical equipment, pharmaceuticals, sugar, coffee, canned tuna, rum and others with their main trading partner being the United States followed by Ireland and Japan. Tax incentives previously in place for companies operating in Puerto Rico were drastically cut during the 90′s and has hurt the economy there tremendously. The unemployment rate now is 16% with 44% living below the poverty line. Their system to measure the poverty line (RPL) is roughly half of the U.S. Tourism is not as large an economic boon as it should be. It’s a beautiful place to visit.

The official languages there are Spanish and English. The latter is required learning in school.  Puerto Rico has a high productivity ratio ranking in the world which attests to a very strong work ethic which I’ve commented on before when I spoke of my dad.

I think the thing that I am most fond of (aside from the natural beauty of the island) are its people. I remember when at my dad’s restaurant folks would come in and would talk to other folks at other tables as if they had known each other for years. Since there is such a mixed heritage in its people (Spain, Indian, European and native Indian also known as the “Taino”) there are no race barriers. Contrary to the perception of some, Puerto Ricans come in all different shades. Some are blond with blue eyes while others are darker with brown eyes so there is little to no distinction between one or the other. Even though I admire that, we’re all fallible and imperfect so it’s not a cause for rally for me.

The food, however, is to die for. My favorite is a dish that my father used to make called mofongo con carne frita. You take semi-fried plantains and smash them along with garlic and pork crackles and serve it with beef cooked with onions and a local spice called sofrito. My sweet wife, knowing my affinity for the cuisine, took it upon herself to learn to make a favorite rice dish of mine called arroz con gandules which translated is rice with pidgeon peas. Don’t tell my mom but my wife actually does a better job at making now and I look forward to this dish every Thanksgiving.  In any case, Puerto Rican food is nowhere near as spicy as Mexican food or the like. That’s another common misconception!

If I can peddle enough books I hope to someday buy a home there that I can take my family to and spend some time there and familiarize them with the island as well as the culture there because despite the gorgeous beaches, the breathtaking forest and the amazing cuisine, Puerto Rico’s greatest asset are its people who work hard and value family.

It’s not all about the rum. ;o)

As a side note, Jupiter Chronicles: The Secret of the Great Red Spot has just been made available on Amazon for pre-order. We’ve gotten back some amazing reviews which we’ll include in the book and you can also read on the site book page here.

Chat soon,

Leonardo Ramirez is an author of Science Fiction and Fantasy. Please visit http://leonardoverse.com and sign up for the blog.

Click here to place your pre-order for Jupiter Chronicles!

Jupiter Chronicles: The Secret of the Great Red Spot is Now Available to Pre-Order!

Hi All,

Just wanted to let you know that the first book in the new Children’s Steampunk series, The Jupiter Chronicles: The Secret of the Great Red Spot is now available for pre-ordering from Amazon!

Click here to pre-order now!

Here’s the synopsis.

A war has been fought and lost by the Jovians. Now the answer to their freedom lies within the Great Red Spot and it’s up to Ian and Callie to uncover its secret.

It is the year 1892 and Ian and Callie Castillo have had to suffer the hardships of a single parent family since their father went missing five years ago. Since then Ian has refused to use the last gift that his father left the wounded boy; a telescope that sits collecting dust in the attic. When Callie decides to peer through its murky lens it activates the device and sends the Castillo’s to the steam-powered floating cities of Jupiter to rescue their father and free the Jovians before the Martians launch their final attack.

What follows is the beginning of an era that will forever be known by its strange name…Steampunk. The Jupiter Chronicles series takes flight with the first book in the series….The Secret of the Great Red Spot.

In case you missed the cover last week, here it is again.

A lot of blood, sweat and tears went into this project by a lot of people. I’m forever grateful to every single one of them including Austin Sullivan, PoochieMars, Kevin Ramirez, The Quint Family, Colleen Quint, Stacey Aragon, Ann Wilkes, Kristen Ramirez and Mackenzy Ramirez.

Here’s the scoop.

A lot of love went into it was well. My greatest hope for this book is that it will be a source of some kind of healing for kids who are growing up in single-parent families and for all others, a moment to enjoy reading with their moms and dads. My most precious memories are reading to my brown-eyed girl and I hope that this book with provide you as a parent with the opportunity to spend that time with your son, daughter or grandchildren!

We will be making the book available for digital formats and I’ll announce those at a later date. Also, we’re working with a library binding company to make it available for libraries and again, we’ll keep you posted on that.

Thank you so very much for your kind support.

Chat soon,

Leonardo Ramirez is an author of Science Fiction and Fantasy. Please visit http://leonardoverse.com and sign up for the blog.

Click here to place your pre-order for Jupiter Chronicles!

New Cover, Old Friends: This Week in the L-Verse

Hi All,

It’s been a very busy week at Leonardoverse as we put the finishing touches on the cover of Jupiter Chronicles but before I get to that, I want to introduce you to a new member of our team, Stacey Aragon who will be serving as our new Community Relations and Development Assistant. I met Stacey through Facebook Comic Con and was immediately impressed with her ability to bring multiple aspects of a large project together and make it look so easy. She was one of the founding members of Michael Netzer’s (DC Comics artist) Facebook Comic-Con which boasts well over 6k members spanning the globe.

Here’s her bio:

“A true child of the 80s, Stacey began her journey as a member of the MTV Generation betwixt the Golden Era of Video Games, the Dark Age of Comic Books, the Renaissance of Animated TV Series; the Video Tape Wars, the Emergence of the Post-Punk L.A. Rock Scene, and the Rise of D.I.Y. Fanzines and Low-Fi Websites. Like father, like daughter, she also followed in her dad’s footsteps by becoming a comics fanatic before she even entered kindergarten–excepting that where he had the J.L.A., she would have the New Teen Titans!

Since her early beginnings as a young and impressionable fan of all that is pop culture, Stacey has graduated from U.N.L.V., where she earned her Bachelor of Arts in Cultural Anthropology, along with a Business Minor in Entertainment Management.

She has also attended Berklee Music, where she received a Professional Certificate in Music Business, and was one of the lucky recipients of the Alf Clausen Celebrity Scholarship Award. In addition to her college career, she has over ten years of creative business experience, spanning the civic, retail, broadcast, A&E, event, internet, and online media industries.

Stacey was one of the original steering committee members for Michael Netzer’s experimental Facebook Comic Con Project in 2009, further serving as F.B.C.C.’s Portfolio Reviews Coordinator and Promotions Chair during its first year run. She has also volunteered in various departments for the Inkwell Awards since the Summer of ’09.”

As the “harbinger of communications and promotions”, Stacey will be handling all publicity and campaigns which includes media and event appearances as well as partner initiatives. You can read more about her at her LinkedIn site here. Her Google + link can be found here.

Kristen and I are honored and humbled to have Stacey with us.

With all of that said, here’s the cover of Jupiter Chronicles. The first book in the series is titled, The Secret of the Great Red Spot.

In case you’re wondering who our dashing young models are here’s the skinny:

Austin Sullivan is a talented drama student who is on his way to hunt his dream of being on the big screen. We have no doubt he’ll get there.

Mackenzy Ramirez is a brown belt in karate and is also my brown-eyed girl!

Let us know what you think!

Pre-ordering for Jupiter Chronicles will be here before you know it!

Chat Soon,

Leonardo Ramirez is an author of Science Fiction and Fantasy. Please visit http://leonardoverse.com and sign up for the blog.

Support the publishing of Haven of Dante by clicking here.

Grains of Yesterday and Open Seas

First of all, I wanted to thank all of my friends and family that have reached out with a kind word and an offer of much-needed prayer after my father passed away last week. It’s times like these when you’re reminded of folks who really care enough to make an effort and lift you up in the tough times.

Thank you so very much from the bottom of my heart. You are cherished.

I don’t mind saying that this week has been torturous at best but what has comforted me the most are the warm thoughts and hugs from my family and friends. I’m especially proud of my daughter. We were driving home from karate one night when I couldn’t hold back the tears. After holding my arm in the front seat for a few minutes she turned on a song that had a disco beat to it and started dancing hilariously. She always knows how to make daddy laugh.

Castillo de San Felipe del Morro, built in 1540

Dad’s memorial service was on Sunday but my plan for a service will be separate and a little different. He had wanted to be cremated and I have honored that. Last night I got the call that his ashes were ready so at the latter part of this month I will take them to the northern part of Old San Juan, Puerto Rico right by what is known as  Castillo de San Felipe del Morro.

There I will scatter them into the sea. We both love the ocean so every time I look out into the vast blue horizon I will think of him. I’ll also have a place to take my family in the future and honor his memory as well.

I think my dad would get a big kick out of reading this post primarily because he was always good for a laugh even at his own expense so in light of that here’s a mix of things my dad used to say and thing that really got under my skin. He was a trekkie as well (which I inherited from him) so I’m sure he’d love the visual references.

Listening to us talk to each was pretty funny because when he did speak English he had that thick latin Ricardo Montalban or Antonio Banderas accent. He’d get tired of sounding as such and would resort to responding to me in Spanish while I maintained the conversation in English.

I’d speak in English and he’d speak in Spanish. We did just fine.

“Lazy people work twice as hard.”

It sounds better in Spanish to be honest but that was his way of saying put all of your effort into doing something right the first time so that you wouldn’t have to do it again….and again…and again. I learned this valuable lesson when I had to clean out the fryer in his restaurant. Every day.

“A man with no money isn’t worth a dime.”

This one really upset me when I first heard it because I took it as me not meaning anything. I was in my teens when he said and I was so angry that I hung up the phone. Lucky for me, he called me back to explain what he meant and what he meant was that I should always be willing to work hard for whatever I get and not lean on handouts or for someone to come save me. We all need a helping hand from time to time. A “net”, so to speak. But all in all what he was really trying to encourage me to do is work hard and make my own way.

How I Learned to Drive

I would never ever never recommend this to anyone. My father taught me to drive in a stick-shift van in the mountains of Puerto Rico. I remember trying my best to shift that old clunker into gear and looking outside of the driver’s window and seeing that 100 foot drop off the side. It was the first time I had learned to take my fear and clamp it shut.

How I Learned to Swim

In the deep end.

How I Learned to Play the Guitar

Dad hired a Latin guitarist to teach me. He played left handed and upside down which means I had to transpose everything he was doing in my head. Once I almost transposed my guitar on his head because I thought that was a stupid way to play a guitar. That drove me nuts.

How He Would Wake Me Up (at 4am)

By placing a pine cone on my face. If it fell off he’d put it right back on there. My daughter’s a brown-belt. I’m pretty sure if I tried that on her I’d be spitting toe nails. My first job was a ten-hour day working at his restaurant. I worked 6 days a week and on the 7th day we stocked the restaurant until noon and if there was something good showing we’d go catch a flick. Then it was back to the grind.

Yup, Dad was tough. And it was good. He worked hard and never retired and I plan on doing the same. From him I learned to look to the open sea and think outside of the box always learning, seeking and yearning to be more tomorrow than I am today.

For short moments here and there I’ve been able to work on Jupiter Chronicles so ext week I’ll send out an update. I got to see the working cover last night and it’s looking very cool.

Chat soon,

Leonardo Ramirez is an author of Science Fiction and Fantasy. Please visit http://leonardoverse.com and sign up for the blog.

Support the publishing of Haven of Dante by clicking here.